International Pronouns Day

International Pronoun Day, observed every year in October, is a global initiative dedicated to raising awareness of the importance of respecting and using people’s correct pronouns. The observance highlights the truth that pronouns are an essential part of identity, and using them correctly affirms dignity and strengthens community.  International Pronoun Day encourages individuals, schools, workplaces, and organizations to learn about the gender spectrum, challenge assumptions, and create environments where everyone feels seen and respected. 

The observance began in 2018 as an effort led by activists and advocates who recognized that pronoun respect was becoming an increasingly visible topic in conversations about gender. As more people began sharing pronouns in introductions and in digital spaces like online profiles, the need for broader public education grew. International Pronoun Day was created to meet that need, offering a dedicated moment each year to reflect on how language shapes belonging. The initiative emphasizes that pronouns are a basic and essential part of how people communicate who they are. 

There are different ways people may choose to represent themselves. Binary pronouns, including he/him and she/her, are typically used for those identifying as male or female. Nonbinary pronouns, like they/them, or neopronouns such as xe/xem and ze/hir, are often used as alternatives by gender-nonconforming people. Some use multiple sets of pronouns or prefer no pronouns at all. International Pronoun Day encourages people to avoid making assumptions based on appearance, name, or tone of voice and instead rely on self-identification. Asking for and sharing pronouns can help normalize the practice and reduce the burden on transgender, nonbinary, and individuals throughout the gender spectrum who often experience misgendering. 

Education is an important aspect of International Pronouns Day. Many people are unfamiliar with why pronouns matter or may feel uncertain about how to navigate conversations about gender. International Pronouns Day provides an opportunity to learn about the impact of misgendering, the difference between gender identity and expression, and the role of language in creating supportive communities. Organizations often share resources explaining how to ask for pronouns respectfully, what to do if you make a mistake, and how sharing pronouns can help reduce stigma. These efforts help build understanding and encourage people to approach pronoun use with empathy rather than hesitation. 

The observance also encourages reflection on how pronoun respect intersects with broader issues of belonging. For many transgender and nonbinary people, having their pronouns recognized is a meaningful affirmation of identity that can reduce stress, strengthen mental health, and improve feelings of safety. International Pronoun Day reminds communities that the language we choose every day is important. It encourages people to practice patience, listen carefully, and remain open to learning, especially as language continues to evolve. 

At the Office of Civil Rights &Title IX (OCRTIX), we believe that when people feel a true sense of belonging, they are better able to reach their full potential and succeed. We are committed to uplifting each Jayhawk by fostering a culture where each person is seen, heard, and valued. Honoring a variety of identities, cultures, and observances allows us to make The University of Kansas a safer and more welcoming space for everyone.